Old Fashioned Approach (Values) with Modern Technology Assistance.
At ElitePartner we assume that every successful long-term relationship consists of three components:
1) Psychological assessment
Psychological assessment is a process of testing that uses a combination of techniques to help arrive at some hypotheses about a person and their behavior, personality and capabilities.
Psychological compatibility – core personality traits such as social style, values, emotional temperament and beliefs, interpersonal relationship style etc.
We believe that compatibility along dimensions of personality is of great importance for long-term relationship success. Our assessment is short and to the point for guests, more extensive for VIP partners.
2) Chemistry
In human chemistry, interpersonal chemistry is a term used, in a colloquial sense, to define a type of felt or experienced “chemistry” between people in friendships, associations, or relationships.
Interpersonal attraction is the attraction between people which leads to friendships and to platonic or romantic relationships.
Interpersonal attraction, the process, is distinct from perceptions of physical attractiveness, which involves views of what is and is not considered beautiful or attractive.
Interpersonal chemistry – hobbies, interests (e.g. how someone utilizes their free time: movies, sports, music), shared experiences. It is important not only to have things in common to start a conversation, but also we believe that interpersonal chemistry is what builds attraction with each other in early stages of the relationship.
3) Physical attractiveness
Physical attractiveness is the degree to which a person’s physical features are considered aesthetically pleasing or beautiful. The term often implies sexual attractiveness or desirability, but can also be distinct from either.
Physical attraction – obviously physical attraction is an important component of every relationship as well. We help our users by encouraging people to upload more photos, higher quality etc – but ultimately users will need to be the judge of physical appearance of another individual.
Match Making
A lot of work goes into building models, which ultimately predicts probability that the couple may enjoy great conversation—which hopefully will lead to a long relationship.
We encourage users to enter in their location and search for possible partners near to them. Computer algorithms, Photos, interests, occupation, and hobbies are good indicators that someone may be an ElitePartner, although the that first person to person meeting is where that human experience will tell you if there’s a spark, or not.
In essence we are assisting in the first two parts—psychological compatibility and interpersonal chemistry, while leaving the third part—physical attraction to our users.
We believe is long term relationships that last the tests of time. These types of relationships require sturdy foundations built on trust. Trust is built on knowing your partner. Their strengthens and weaknesses. Your partner must be able to cover your shortcomings. Successful relationships are not 50/50, they are 100/100. Meaning you are to give 100 percent to the relationship with no expectations in return. A tough concept and is contrary to most peoples thinking. If you believe in give and take, a relationship build on 50/50 then you are most likely doomed to fail. Why, if you are giving 50% and they give 50% that means at some points in the relationship you both may contribute 0% which is a recipe for disaster. This is why success means giving 100 percent to the relationship 100% of the time.
How is this possible, If you love, truly love the other person you get this concept. If you do not understand this concept, may be a step was missed in the initial dating process. Maybe this is not your first relationship. Look back to see why a past relationship failed, and without question it is most likely us and not the other persons doing ( drinking, drugs, or abuse are not included these should never be tolerated). Drifting apart or not liking the other persons lifestyle is a personal choice. Did we get to know the other person in the beginning?
ElitePartner Dating believes success begins inside ourselves.